Why Does My Husband Criticize Me

Why does my husband criticize me

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You have got to be kidding, you admit you did the following:

“I told my friends to insult him”

“I had directed my friend to scold him words like – mad, asshole, scoundrel whenever he crossed his path”

“20 of my classmates were told to boo him”

“He wanted his love-letter and poems to be kept a secret but I made it public for my own security and to humiliate him”

“I then hacked his cell phone and laptop. The only way to make him strong was by giving him pain. So I spammed him a lot of mails aimed at his personal problems, weaknesses etc”

“I encouraged others to humiliate him. I also got angry because I expected him to madly fall in love with me for what I had done to make his life better but he started keeping a distance concerned about his own safety.”

“I have decided to harass him until he apologizes to me.”

and you can’t understand why he criticizes you instead of admiring you? It’s because you are a fricking sadistic sociopath mostly… and that is probably your best trait. You actually tried to make his life a living hell, and you want him to apologize for not liking it, WTF is wrong with you?

When it was just him writing poems instead of working, sure I got it… when it was you being a harpy and having everyone humiliate him, hacking his phone, exposing his weaknesses, well… you became the worst type of bitch imaginable because he loved you. Then instead of constructively trying to help him you deliberately sought to tear him down, to attack him in ways no loving person EVER would, and then you demand that he apologize for you being a psycho.

Now you know why he doesn’t admire you for treating him like crap.

Why does my husband criticize me

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Don’t try to give him any answer, just let it be. Love, silence and patient will give answer without a single word. This might be his nature and we can’t change anybodies nature, you can take his criticism as your trigger for self motivation. In my opinion confronting for criticism would not work in this relation, confrontation may end with big fight or stress in both.

Don’t give him answer, with lot of love, just let him to do the thing one by one to which he is used to criticize. By doing that works, he will come to know that the things are not that much easy that they looks. Easier things looks very simple but simple is actually not easy to do.

Other Opinion is sometime Husband don’t criticize because he disagree with a wife’s behavior or an attitude. But he criticize because he somehow feel devalued by the behavior or attitude. So if he is feeling devalued by unknowing behavior by you or your relative then try to figure out that also.

somewhere I read and somehow I agree about :

The person who is complaining may simply be struggling with an internal battle that is spilling over into your life. When people nag or grumble, they may actually be trying to tell you that they are hurting. Griping about the clothes on the floor, the dishes in the sink, or the project that is five minutes late may be code for “I need your support and attention. I need to feel valued and appreciated.”

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