Why Does My Husband Love Me

Does My Husband Love Me? 10 Signs That Tell You What He Won’t

If you hit a roadblock with your partner and wonder, does my husband love me anymore, look for these 15 signs to tell you which way you should go.

I doubt I am going to tell you something that you haven’t already heard. Marriage is HARD. But, sometimes it is way harder than you could have ever imagined. Sometimes, you might even feel your like husband wants out. If you ask yourself, does my husband love me still, that is a very difficult question to live without knowing the answer.

There is a presumption that love lasts forever. What we all know from experience is that it doesn’t. If your husband behaves differently, distant, or downright done, you might be wondering if his “I do” has turned to “I don’t.”

Does my husband love me or not? 10 answers to reveal the truth

Guys can vault, especially when a subject makes them uncomfortable. And, it isn’t that unusual for them to shut out the people they love most. Sometimes when the problem has nothing to do with them. If you wonder aloud, does my husband still love me, and he says he does, but you aren’t feeling the love, stop listening to words. Start to look for signs that he still adores you.

#1 He still does those little things that make your life easier without being asked. Let’s face it, a guy likes to do the bare minimum especially when it comes to his home life. If he takes out the trash and cleans up after himself, that is all for you.

Guys don’t care if their shit is everywhere and the place is a mess *at least most of them*. So, if he takes out the garbage, does the dishes, and makes sure that his socks are in the laundry hamper, it might not be the “I love you” that you look for, but it is love no less. Take it for what it is worth. [Read: 19 unfortunate signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore]

#2 If you are stuck somewhere and need help, he drops whatever to rescue you. A man in love with a woman, even a tough guy, drops whatever to rescue his damsel in distress.

If your husband drops everything when you have a flat tire, the dishwasher leaks, or your internet goes out, then it is because he wants to make sure you are taken care of because he is protective of you. In lay MAN terms, that equals love.

#3 He talks nicely about you to people in his life. It is one thing if you are in the heat of battle and he calls you a bitch or says he doesn’t like you very much. It’s another when he talks about you when you aren’t listening, or at least he thinks you aren’t.

When a guy is in love, he might not say it to you out of resentment or the need to retain control, especially if things are tense. But, if he lets the truth out when he talks to people in his life, and talks positively about you and your relationship, then that is pretty much golden.

Sure, guys all talk shit about their wives, especially when men get together. But, if his comments are more good than bad, then he still feels cupid’s arrow. [Read: 25 clues to know if relationship therapy will help your marriage]

#4 He still reaches out to you. Men all have different ways they reach out to the women they love. Some are touchy feely, and some are more “talkers.” If he still tries his hardest to make contact and find a way to communicate even when the communication seems terse, then he tries to find out how to be in a relationship with the woman he loves—you.

#5 You still have sex. What happens in the bedroom is what happens in a marriage. If you still have sex, then there is no reason not to believe that he still loves you. I know the folklore is that all guys want is sex. When it comes to marriage, if a guy is done and not in love anymore, he isn’t going to go in for love that isn’t real.

A guy who doesn’t love his wife would rather masturbate than carry on a fake sexual relationship. If you still enjoy sex together, that is one of the best answers to, does my husband love me. [Read: How to have better sex and change the way you make love]

#6 He asks you about you. I am just going to say it, and if you want to hate me, men, go ahead. Men are all about “me.” If your man goes so far as to ask you how you are, how your day was, or about anything in your life, that is sheer effort.

Not only are guys not about anyone but themselves, they certainly aren’t about the complaint train. If he asks, then he genuinely cares. If you say things suck he wants to hear it. No guy who isn’t in love puts themselves in that position. I promise you that!

#7 He says he is sorry. One of the hardest things to do in any relationship is to say you are sorry. If your husband still says he is sorry for what he has done and truly means it, then he cares enough to know he hurt your feelings and has remorse enough to apologize for it.

“I’m sorry” are two of the hardest words to say on earth. If he willingly utters them, he cares about you enough for me to say he still loves you a lot. [Read: 16 non-sexual touches to feel connected and loved]

#8 He hates your playdates but will still go along. Guys hate when you drag them along for the ride. Women are notorious for setting up our husbands like we do our kids. We assume that just because we like someone, our husbands will get along with their husband.

Guess what? They rarely do. If he is still on board for going to dinner with strangers, a party where he knows no one, or heading over to your friend’s baby’s first birthday party, then he does it out of pure love.

#9 He cares when you are upset or crying. I tell you from experience that if a guy truly loves you, then no matter how many times you cry in front of him, it still makes him feel bad and want to fix things.

If he stops being angry, ends the fight, or comes to put his arm around you when you are in tears, then he not only still cares, he definitely still loves you. Crying from a girl you don’t love is nothing but irritating. Crying from the woman you DO love is heart wrenching for a guy. [Read: 10 gestures that make a man a bragworthy catch]

#10 Your threats still scare him. If you told him a ton of times that you are leaving when things get bad, and he hasn’t turned a deaf ear to it, then he is still in love. When people give up in a relationship or simply don’t care anymore, your threats, empty or real, are completely lost. If they aren’t lost on him, then chances are good that he is still knee deep in love.

There is nothing worse than questioning, does my husband love me or not. If you want to know if he loves you, then stop asking and not accepting his answer. Listen to what his actions say instead.

Sure, if he says no, you have your answer. But, if he says, yes, decide for yourself if you believe it or not, and for what reason you make the decision.

Even the best imposters can’t disguise when they are in love with a woman. Their actions will always answer your question, does my husband love me?

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Quiz: Does My Ex Still Love Me?

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Mostly A’s:

If you got mostly A’s, then your ex is not in love with you anymore. I’m sorry to break your heart, dear, but this guy has completely gotten over you. In fact, you’ve been “friend zoned”. Be thankful, though. It sounds like this guy really respects you. Also, many ex’s never stay friends and forever miss out on an important relationship in their life. My suggestion to you would be to let him be your friend. After all, later in life when you’re at your lowest, this is the friend who will understand you better than anyone else and will be able to help you get out of your funk. Lovers may come and go, but friends are forever.

Quiz: Does My Ex Still Love Me?

Mostly B’s:

If you got mostly B’s, then the answer is “no”. Although he’s miserable, and moping might suggest he still loves you, the truth is he just loves and misses the IDEA of you. Trust me, if he loved you, he wouldn’t be drunk texting you at three in the morning, spilling his heart out, he wouldn’t be calling you nasty names behind your back, he wouldn’t be sleeping with every woman in sight and having meaningless relationships whenever he can. He would be fighting to get you back. He’d be acting like the man he should have been when you were together. He’d be nice, not a jerk. No, this guy misses the idea of you and is nostalgic for what you two shared. That’s not the same as missing you. Oh, and by the way, if he is continuously harassing you, then you might want to put an end to his crazy and get a restraining order. Mostly B’s guys are notoriously obsessive in their behavior and can be almost frightening at times (sometimes downright crazy). Just be safe with this one and stay as far away from him as you can. No good can come from trying to rekindle this.

Quiz: Does My Ex Still Love Me?

Mostly C’s:

If you got mostly C’s, then the answer is “yes”, your ex still loves you. This is the guy who can’t exactly be your best friend, but can’t imagine ever disrespecting you and calling you bad names to his friends. This guy would do anything to get you back, but he’s pretty sure he screwed things up royally, and is too afraid to even try to win your heart back. If you got mostly C’s then your ex is not over you. Not even close. Which means you can do one of two things:
You can love him or leave him.
The mostly C’s guy gives you the option of asking if he’d like to give it another chance. You can be pretty sure it’s real love and not nostalgia (unlike the mostly B’s guy), and he’s not trying to be your friend (like the mostly A’s guy), which means you get to make your move and rekindle the flame if you want to. My word of advice? Go easy on the guy. Ease gently into asking him out again so he doesn’t turn away and run like a frightened lamb (remember, you broke his heart once already). Also, make sure you REALLY want him back; after all, exes are exes for a reason, right?

Does my husband love me? Quiz

The following quiz is going to answer these questions:

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However, the thing I would like you to do is to take this assessment as quickly as possible, don’t try to think of the answers rationally him and for a long period of time, let your emotions and your psyche do the trick, after all, your subconscious is the only part in your brain responsible for your love life! So, let it do the trick and let it work for you.

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From your answers, it appears that your husband doesn’t love you anymore, in fact, he is very cold with you and he is not paying a lot of attention to you.
This can be a temporary issue, probably due to his professional life and stress, and it can be also an issue with communication, in other words, you are not communicating with him properly and you may be either nagging him a lot or making his life hell in the house by concentrating on the negative while forgetting and neglecting the positive aspects, that’s why he prefers to run away, at least with his mind.

Your husband still loves you, but there are many things making his life very difficult in this relationship, mainly communication and reciprocity with you!
You don’t seem to show a lot of love and warm feelings to your husband, that’s why you need to work on your communication and learn how to talk the right way to him, the way that will make him feel great about you and confident to be with you.

It seems that your husband loves you, in fact, from the answers you have provided in this love quiz, it looks that he cares a lot about you, although some areas of your relationship still deserve to be worked on, it seems that everything you have with your husband is doing fine, he likes spending time with you and he enjoys being with you, in fact, he loves you deeply.

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Does he listen to you deeply when you talk to him?

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Does he make love to you regularly?

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Does he prefer to spend time with you rather than spending time with his friends?

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Does he enjoy your food and enjoy eating with you?

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Does he care about your little details, your anniversaries, birthday etc.?

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Does he give you gifts from time to time?

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Does he compliment you and praise you when you wear something nice?

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Does he smile when he sees you?

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Does he try to make you laugh?

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Does he kiss you often during the day?

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Does he touch you and cuddle with you when you are alone near him?

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Does he tease you and play with you?

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Does he feel completely relaxed when he is with?

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Does he seem to be in a hurry to go out whenever he is home?

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Does he leave you alone a lot?

Reader Interactions

II guess it’s over then!?

Says he is “deeply in love with me”…..how come it does not feel that way?

Maybe he is not a good communicator?! He doesn’t open up to you.

francis medina says

I no he loves me but we have a lot if communication diffetenves. I am more quiet and likes go talk about everything and he completely shuts me out. But we are working very hard at understanding each other.

Raquel Herrera says

I get that he might be stressed at work but who doesn’t. I work as well but i don’t bring my work home with me and yet 85% of the time I do all the cooking and cleaning around the house due homework with are kids and but them to bed. His constantly on his phone we hardly speak to one another and literally pushe’s me away when I go to hug him or play with him only kiss my good bye when his going to work. I know iam a good wife becouse I try very hard to satisfy him. When he needs anything iam fast to do what he asks. Yet I never get any affection or his attention at that. I don’t know what to do.

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